Izinja ziletha inani elikhulu lenjabulo nenjabulo ezimpilweni zethu - kodwaukuqeqeshwa okuhle kubalulekileukwenza isiqiniseko sokuthi ukuziphatha okungafunwa akubangeli izinkinga kokubili wena nenja yakho.
Ukuqeqeshwa okuyisisekelo okubalulekile ukuze inja yakho ifunde kuhlanganisa indlela yokuhamba ngomthofu, ukuthuthukisa ukukhumbula kwayo, nokuphendula imiyalo eyisisekelo njengokuthi 'hlala' kanye 'nokuhlala'. Le miyalo ibalulekile ekuphepheni kwesilwane sakho esifuywayo kanye nokwenza impilo yenu ndawonye ibe lula. Ngaphandle kwalezi zifundo ezidingekayo, ukuqeqesha inja yakho kungase futhi kuthuthuke kube yindlela ejabulisayo yokuhlanganisa nokwakha ubuhlobo, lapho eningakwazi khona ukufunda nobabili ndawonye.
Ukusetha izisekelo ngokuqeqeshwa okusekelwe emvuzweni kungasiza ukwenza isiqiniseko sokuthi inja yakho iyakujabulela ukuqeqeshwa kwayo, futhi kuqinise nokuziphatha okuhle.
Ukuqeqeshwa okusekelwe emiklomelweniithembela ezinjeni ezivuzayo lapho zenza ukuziphatha ozama ukukufeza, futhi uziba (kodwa ungajezisi) ukuziphatha okungafuneki. Kuhlukile kwezinye izinhlobo zokuqeqesha ezinjengokuqeqeshwa 'kokungathandi', lapho izinja zijeziselwa ukuziphatha okungafunwa, futhi okungaholela ekucindezelekeni kwenja yakho.
Ukuqeqeshwa okusekelwe emvuzweni kukuvumela ukuthi uqeqeshe inja yakho usebenzisa ukuqinisa okuhle nokusebenza ngokuhambisana nokuziphatha kwayo kwemvelo, futhi kuyindlela enobuntu nephumelelayo yokuqeqesha inja.
'Imiklomelo' esetshenziswa ekuqeqesheni okusekelwe kumiklomelo ingaba ukudla okumnandi, ukudlala ngethoyizi abalithandayo lokuhlafuna, noma 'umfana/intombazane enhle!' ngezwi elihle kanye nokumbambatha.
Ngakho-ke, ukuqeqeshwa okusekelwe emvuzweni kubukeka kanjani ngempela? Isibonelo kungaba uma inja yakho inomkhuba wokugxumela ukuze ibingelele abantu. Kungenzeka ukuthi uma uzama izindlela eziphikisayo zokuqeqesha, njengokubeka idolo phezulu lapho inja yakho igxuma, lokhu bekungeke kubhekane nokuziphatha futhi kungase kubangele ukuthi inja yakho igxume isuka kude ukuze igweme idolo.
Usebenzisa indlela yokuqeqesha esekelwe emvuzweni, ungagxila ekuvuzeni inja yakho lapho ingagxumi, futhi ungayinaki ukweqa kwayo ngokuphelele (okuhlanganisa nokubheka amehlo). Lokhu kungasho ukuthi lapho inja yakho igxuma, ungayinaki, futhi ulinde kuze kube yilapho isinezidladla ezine phansi ukuze uyivuze ngokuyiphatha kahle, noma ukuyinaka.
Kungenzeka ukuthi inja yakho izogxuma futhi, mhlawumbe ngomzamo omncane, futhi kufanele uqhubeke uyivuza kuphela lapho izidladla ezine ziphansi. Maduze, inja yakho izofunda ukuthi akukhona ukugxuma okuklonyeliswayo, ukuma noma ukuhlala - futhi izoqala ukuvolontiya ngokuziphatha okufunayo.
Kunokuba ujezise inja yakho ngokugxuma, okungase kubangele ukudideka nengcindezi futhi kungenzeki ukuthi ithole umphumela omuhle, ukuqeqeshwa okusekelwe emiklomelweni kudala iphethini elihle lokuziphatha ngokuvuza izenzo ezifanele ezivela enjeni yakho.
Ngokubekezela kanye nemivuzo efanele, wena nenja yakho nakanjani nizoba nesibopho esihle, futhi nikwazi ukujabulela sonke isikhathi enisichithe ndawonye.
Uma unomdlwane omusha sha noma uthathe inja endala, futhi ungaqiniseki ukuthi ungaqala kuphi ngokuqeqeshwa kwayo, kuhlale kuwumqondo omuhle ukuthola usizo lochwepheshe futhi ubhalise esikoleni somdlwane - hlola i-RSPCA yangakini ukuze ubone. uma beqhuba izifundo zesikole somdlwane endaweni yangakini.
Uma uhlangabezana nokuziphatha okungafunwa nenja yakho, funa iseluleko sikadokotela wezilwane noma udokotela wokuziphatha kwezilwane.
Isikhathi sokuthumela: May-17-2024